Just about everyone knows the the story of Justin Bieber and Selena Gomez. They hooked up, broke up, made up, broke up, made up……..their saga goes on and on over a span of years. They just can’t seem to stay away from each other. Every time it looks like they have moved on from one another, they hook up again. What is the connection between these two that keeps them entwined in each other’s life?
Both stars have been associated to many hot celebrities, but none of those relationships have lasted. Bieber’s most recent spotlighted flings have been with Hailey Baldwin, 19, and Kourtney Kardashian, 36. Gomez was linked to Zedd, 26 then with Niall Horan, 22, but now in 2016 , they are again acting as if they have not gone through years of heartbreak and have been sending each other flirty Instagram messages.
Cooper Lawrence, a psychologist and a relationship expert who spoke to HollywoodLife.com EXCLUSIVELY! says, Gomez and Bieber never moved on from their original relationship that’s why both are always drawn back to each other. “If you’re still ruminating about someone who wasn’t good for [you], you can’t move on,” Cooper told.
Cooper further commented that there may still be hope with the Justin-Selena relationship. It depends on Why the breakup happened in the first place. Was it because of something that can be remedied, like distressed behavior, or something that can’t be altered, like personality? “An angry person will not change. Something that can change is maturity and development,” Cooper said. Both of them have to realize what they have to work on, first. “Say, ‘I want you in my life,’ and put the blame on [yourself], but never give your power away,” the expert advised. This advice also rings true for other women just like Gomez, who are in a relationship with a “bad boy” who has not treated her properly.